I am embedded within Ealing Perinatal Mental Health Service, as research suggests that abuse can often begin or escalate during pregnancy and/or after giving birth. In fact, 30% of all domestic abuse begins in pregnancy.
In my role, I provide trauma-informed support for women diagnosed with a mental health problem who are in crisis and at serious risk of harm or homicide due to domestic abuse. It can be challenging for women to access mental health services when they are experiencing domestic abuse and I help them stay safe while also getting the support they need for their mental health.
My advocacy role offers both practical and emotional support based on the individual circumstances of a woman I’m working with. I assess the risks she’s facing by asking about recent abusive incidents and warning signs, then create a personalised safety plan to help keep her safe based on her needs and choices. For example, planning where she could go – such as a refuge – if she had to flee her home quickly.
The support I give often includes referring or signposting to other specialists, such as counsellors. Or it might be me accompanying a woman to a police station so that she can report the abuse she’s experiencing, helping her understand her legal options, and/or support in preparing for a family or criminal court case.
With some of the women I support, health appointments are the only safe contact method, away from an abuser, to safety plan together, to avoid placing her in greater danger and at greater risk.
For that reason, I work closely with health professionals including GPs, psychiatrists and psychologists to schedule appointments that meet the woman’s individual needs.
I also offer training and consultations to ‘upskill’ health professionals, helping them feel more confident in identifying domestic abuse and knowing where to refer women for support.
The feedback I get from the women is testament to the impact of the DAHA role and how important it is. It really could be the difference between life and death.
“Thank you so much. For all your support. For always listening to me. I felt I could be honest with you. You never judged me. I feel stronger now and safe here.”
“Thank you so much Penelope. I always felt supported by you, and you were always available whenever I needed you. I’m finally happy and I feel safe… I’m better than ever.”
I love my job, and it’s a privilege to be in this role. It can be hard to ‘leave it behind’ at the end of the day so I like to unwind of an evening by getting stuck into a good book or trying out a new recipe.”
We are thankful for our partnership with Islamic Relief who have championed this innovative solution to supporting women experiencing domestic abuse and mental health in Ealing.
